I was texting TC last night and what we talked about kinda got me thinking. Sometimes you just need somebody in your life that gets it. That understands. They get that you need their company and thier companionship but don’t want a tittle. I get that for a woman a title signifies everything a title makes it real. But nimrods instead of jumping down their throats about not wanting to be with you look at the actual situation. There could be plenty of reasons
1. They just want your company: some people don’t want to be your gf or your bf. They don’t want to be yours. Hell they probably just like being around your ass and on occasion you let him grt the box. Oh well. So nine times out of 10 if he saying or she saying “Hey I just dont want you” they honestly dont want you. They probably just wanna be your friend. So stop trying to push yourself on them. You look stupid and desperate. And trust me it aint cute. You’ll lose a friend. And if you that beat for a boyfriend I heard Match, Eharmony, Christian Mingle and Black People me have some desperate people just like you.
2. They may not be ready: now I know a few peoole that can agree with this. One of those people being myself. Sometimes you just arent ready. Its not the easiest thing in the world when you’re blessed with the right person at the wrong time. But if thats the case don’t just keep dragging them along and not explain it to them. Its ok to not be ready. Some peoole get that. And if they really understand they are going to ride for you until you are. And thats real.
3. TITLES COMPLICATE SHIT SOMETIMES: this is mainly for females. You heffas get this girlfriend title and start acting like a whole new person. You change cause you’re their girlfriend. You are not the female you were when you met him. Nobody wants to date a stranger. Most females feel like they need to be extra or do more just cause he officially yours and that honestly don’t meam shit. You’re boyfriend and girlfriend not husband and wife. Its going to be nothing for him to dump that ass and keep it pushing. Always remember, when they say its cheaper to keep her they aint talkin about no spoiled ass girlfriend
Now I got shit to do. Later.